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1.  We admitted that we were powerless over lust — that our lives had become unmanageable.

2.  Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

3.  Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

4.  Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

5.  Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

6.  Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

7.  Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

8.  Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

9.  Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.

11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to sexaholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

That first step is a powerful one. Powerful in that you have to admit that you are POWERLESS. The addiction will–no matter how hard you try, how much you want otherwise–CONTROL you.

The second step is just as crucial. Humbly asking God to do what you cannot do–to go a day, a hour, a minute without giving in to what is screaming at you. Or, sometimes, whispering, jeering, suggesting, seducing.

I wouldn’t wish this addiction on anyone. But since I’m stuck with it, I think I’d better start remember Step 1 and Step 2 again.


2 thoughts on “Steps

  1. All addictions are so insidious…

    will we turn to the temptation or will we turn to God…

    the Lord helped me beat my addiction to smoking, to drinking, to anything in the moment of my pain that is not Him…and I believe we will have battles until we get to see Him face to face…

    It’s usually when I am grieving or angry that I am weakest…

    and that’s okay, He loves us and understands.

    Lord, thank you for being our Helper…closer than a brother.

  2. Yes, do we turn to the temptation or turn to God? That’s the question!

    I hope to remain obedient now that I have been baptized. It was incredible. Then I baptized Amanda! The Pastor followed with these words, “now your life will get tougher”. And it did.

    It’s been a rough week. You won’t see me on FB. You will rarely see me blogging to. Changes have to be made. I must live the third chapter of 1 Peter.

    Please pray for me. Now I will be forced to visit your blog more often to check in. Love you!

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